Alright, so I’ve been getting a lot of emails asking for dating and seduction help over my last series of blog posts about love and relationships (read this, this and this). I have decided to come up with what I call the Megalectores Method of dating and seduction – similar to the Mystery Method.

I have dated lots of “sporty women” in my lifetime, and in this first installment of the Megalectores Method I will share with you an easy way to score with a sporty chick.

Perhaps a lot of men dream of dating a sporty chick – someone who rocks their world through sports. As much as it is quite rare to encounter a girl who loves sports, it is also rare to date this kind of girl. This is because these girls are so in love with sports and it can be rare for them to be deeply involved with guys. This is also why some people label them as homosexual or bisexuals. However, some guys still find them hot and challenging to be with. If you are one of the guys who love to date a sporty chick, then continue reading and discover how to get a sporty girl closer to you.

Sports is a rare aspect of a woman’s life. It has always been true since the past decade that women are never good at sports and they would rather be better off doing household chores. Men on the other hand are encouraged to play sports to show off their masculinity. However, many things change as the world lives by. It’s not surprising to see women’s league playing basketball, soccer, or softball. And this is the difficult part for men who loves these sporty chicks—they are just so into sports and not into dating men.

It can be very begrudging to see other men dating these so-into-sports women. But how do they do it? The answer is simple and quite flexible too. You just have to play their game. Pitch a softball or be a good catcher if you have to, or play as a goal keeper and challenge her striking skills. Some are rather enthusiastic in playing with men especially when they’re challenged. This is going to be a very good way to catch her attention which is the first step to getting close to this sporty goddess of your liking.

Another way to deal with her sports-focused attention is to act like you don’t know the game. That will be a great opportunity to ask her about her game and maybe even ask her to teach you how to play. This becomes even easier to act if you don’t know how to play at all. Try to estimate her personality and observe if she likes to teach newbies or if she would rather have you to challenge her. Most would surely want the latter. You just have to walk through the safer path towards approaching her or else it’s a failure.

Once you have passed the first trial, moving on to the next step will be easier. That is, if your strategy in the first step worked, your next move is to get her out of the court and get her to a date. Take note that you have already established similar interests. This alone will make her get interested in you. Dating will never be a problem by then. In other words, ask her out into a not-so-sporty get together but keep both parties burning with interest in sports. Soon you’ll get one hell of a sporty chick beside you for your friends and family to see as your girlfriend.

Watch out for the next installment of the Megalectores Method – coming up next Wednesday.

Contributed by Jessica Langley, staff writer of the Megalectores Magazine

Not a lot of people use the term “court” when trying to win a woman over anymore. However, while courting used to mean picking up daisies before picking up a woman before a date, it is a much simpler, sweeter and more laid-back term nowadays. Here are several tips on how to seduce a woman in today’s day and age…

• Tip Number One: Become her friend.

Nowadays, the strongest relationships start with friendships and casual flirting. This way, you can learn more about her and spend more quality time with her instead of rushing into things. If you rush a relationship, you could lose the important bond that you might be searching for and you won’t be able to earn her respect and trust, either. What you should do is get to know her first and let her see every aspect of you. During this time, it would be important to be sweet, but not overbearing, though. So, although it would be alright to call her up at night, don’t wait until it is very late at night to do so.

• Tip Number Two: Do not suffocate her.

Although you want a woman to know that you like her, you shouldn’t suffocate her to death. So, even if you are in the same place at the same time, you shouldn’t just focus all of your attention on her. Socialize with other people, as well. This might sound crazy since women generally love being showered with attention, but you could scare them away if you shower them with too much attention. The following link is a good resource on how to do this well – read this.

• Tip Number Three: Ask her out properly.

Once enough time has passed, you can try to ask her out on a date. Before doing this, think about all of the time that you spent together so far. Think about your phone conversations and try to look for important and helpful clues. Does she like Japanese food, perhaps? Does she prefer casual joints or fine dining? Is she a fan of flowers? What’s her favorite kind? Try to remember all of the things that she loves and then make an effort to make your first date as memorable as possible.

• Tip Number Four: Treat her like royalty.

If she agrees to go out with you, then be a gentleman. Pick her up, bring her flowers, open the car door, help her get out of her coat, and pull her chair out for her. The majority of women in today’s day and age are no longer used to men doing these things for them. Since you are courting her, though, it would be best to keep a good and long-lasting impression, so why not make an effort when it comes to this? This is especially so if she’s your female boss!

• Tip Number Five: Impress her with your assets.

A good way to demonstrate high value is to show off your assets – financially. Let’s face it – rich guys are attractive. If you have a portfolio of real estate investments, for example, you will come across as high value. Successful people own properties! A good resource on how to get started would be here, here and here.

As you can see, courting a woman that you like really isn’t that difficult. Although it is definitely different compared to regular dating customs, you are sure to enjoy doing it and she is sure to love it even more. You might have to wait a little longer to get any special moments out of it, but in the end, it will just make those moments all the more special.

Got questions? Email me at jessica@megalectoresdeciencia.com and I’ll reply you with more insights!

I received quite a number of emails regarding my last post on how to get a girl’s phone number (click here if you missed it). One of the readers asked, “What happens if the woman you are interested in is your superior at office?”

There are a lot of men that are attracted to their female boss. If this is the situation that you are in, you probably want to find a way to get closer to her. It can be a lot of fun to date your female boss and it could turn into something serious. However, seducing your female boss isn’t the same as seducing a girl at a bar. Since you already have a professional relationship with your boss, you need to modify your seduction techniques. The following paragraphs will help you with your seduction techniques so that when the time comes, you’ll be able to seduce your female boss instantly.

The first step in seducing your boss is to find out if she is dating anybody. It is fairly easy to find out if your boss is married, but it can be more difficult to find out if she is single. It is important to know if your boss is single because it means that you have a better chance of seducing her. If she is dating someone, it can take a lot longer to seduce your boss. It is never a good idea to directly ask your boss if she is dating somebody. You need to do it in a way that is very subtle. One of the best ways to do this is by asking her how her weekend one. If she has a boyfriend, she might casually mention him or say that “we” went places. If you don’t feel comfortable doing this, you can always ask your coworkers if she is dating somebody. Ask her out on a date – listening to bossa nova at a bar for example. When she is out with you, stop thinking that she is your boss, and start flirting. Learn how to flirt with a girl using conversational seduction tactics (Google it). Another good resource on dating advice is Cosmo, naturally.

Once you have found out if your female boss is single, you can determine what strategy to use. If your boss is dating somebody, you need to be even more careful trying to seduce her. You will really need to test the waters and see if she is receptive to your seduction techniques. One of the best ways to test the waters is by complimenting her. If she ignores your compliments or does not take them seriously, she probably is not interested in a relationship. If she is receptive to them though, she could open to a relationship.

If you know that your boss is single, you can be a little more forward with your approach. Try to attend work events that are outside of the office. If there is an office party, make sure that you go. This way, you will have an opportunity to spend time with her in a setting outside the office. Most people let their guard down at office parties and you will be able to see the real her. Even though you aren’t in the office, it is important to remain professional at first. Don’t, for example, run the October Man routine on her at the office pantry!

Now that you know how to seduce your female boss, you should be able to have a relationship with her. Just remember to be extremely subtle until you know that she has the same feelings as you do.

Many guys seem to think that it is quite difficult to get a girl’s number. I don’t blame them for thinking this because competition is pretty intense nowadays when he comes to dating and attracting women. The truth is that you ever go to a girl directly and asked for her number she would probably reject you unless you look like Brad Pitt. For this reason it is important for you to know the right tips and techniques when it comes to getting a girl’s phone number. Even better, you have to use the techniques so that she voluntarily surrenders her phone number to you even without asking for it. This is possible if you know the right techniques. Keep on reading to find out the best ways to get a girl’s phone number without really asking for it…

How to get a girl’s phone number using cutting-edge seduction methods

First of all remember that if the girl already likes you then getting her phone number is pretty simple and almost an afterthought. Therefore the bigger question is how you can make her like you in the first place. Not that you don’t have to get her to fall in love with you deeply. You only need to make her develop a light level of perfection for you. Using techniques such as fractionation and the October Man Routine would build the basic foundational rapport and get her to like you quickly. Be careful not to overdo this because she might then see you as a friend. You may already know that falling into the friend zone is one of the worst things that can happen to you as a budding seducer. Get her to like you as a lover not as a friend or a brother.

Second of all, challenge her. This might sound contradictory to the advice that you get from other seduction gurus, but this will set you apart from the other guys. Start a small conflict with her. Don’t agree with everything that she says, and tease her. Be dominant in the conversation and don’t give in. Once you have done this, then you will be able to attract her quickly. Nobody knows why this works so effectively, but many suspect that this has got to do with the recent discovery of the female loophole. I will blog more about the female psychology loophole in the context of picking up girls in future blog posts.

Once you have done this, then casually ask for her phone number. If you have done the first two steps correctly and effectively, then this step is very easy. You do not need any magic pickup lines or routines that will make a surrender of phone number to you. In fact, if you are already a master at this particular seduction technique that don’t be surprised to find that she be the one is going to give her phone number to you without you even need to ask. The best way to seduce a woman is to be covert about it!

Picking up women these days may be a little hard. Women nowadays are naturally preoccupied with many things. They do these things to keep their mind off with men. That is a defensive strategy. As a man, a true warrior; you have to get them ‘off-guard’.

Picking up women is an art. You might be envious of guys who can pick up women easily by flirting with them. What is the difference between you and that guy? Is he richer? Is he a smooth talker? Do the women have some debt and she is now flirting with him? Those things always cross into our minds no doubt.

Picking Up Women – The Art of War

Women psychology is complex. Let us accept that fact. Their minds are much more complex and they mature more rapidly. I am not trying to be a sexist, but this is a learning experience for us men. As per Sun Tzu’s ‘Art of War’, we have to know our enemy. You can start first by observing the girl, how she dresses, how she acts, and how she talks. Another good example is by studying the latest women topics. What do they talk about at present? Check if it is entertainment, business, current events, or fashion. Women will be surely impressed if you did your homework.

Correspondingly, below are some of the simple tips on how to pick up women effectively:

• Be yourself – Some guys take picking up and flirting with women very seriously. And that turns them off. This gives a notion that you are doing this as a hobby. Taking them for granted and breaking hearts is not in their vocabulary. They want someone who can talk to and rely on if they are in a pinch.
• Be creative and original – Guys are becoming common or stale as they are doing the same thing over and over again. Women do not like that and they shrug off potential suitors. Simple comments like “I like your watch, where did you buy that?” Or if you are in long line queue, you can quip “I hope this line goes to Avatar.’ She will surely smile, and this gives the your opportunity to get to know her more.
• Do not forget to ask for her contact details – While both of you are engrossed in a conversation, you might forget to ask for her phone number. Some girls will be skeptical on giving their phone for safety reasons. At least an email will do fine. Or a Blackberry PIN if she still does not want to give any contact details. Tell her that you will wait at the exact place tomorrow at the same time. This is a nifty seduction trick which I found by reading this blog article. By doing this, it proves that you are interested in her, and eventually she will give your number. Try it!

Once you got to know her number or email, send her a message immediately. Try sending once every morning and evening. Do not message all the time as she might be busy. It will be much better if you ask her when you can message or call. This will improve your relationships with her and make her like you quickly.

In my next blog post, I will share with you a no-fail trick on getting any woman’s phone number. Watch this space!